Aug 26th 2009 By Amber Adrian

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Stay Sane Staying Single, When All Your Friends Are Married

Being the ninth at dinner parties, the fifth at brunch, and the third at the matinee can be awkward.

You're the one for whom the waitress has to drag out an extra chair. You're the one who goes stag when wedding invites are "spouses only" to save the couple the cost of feeding some semi-permanent plus one. You're the one they invite that weird co-worker to the party for, so you're not the only single one.

True, good friends will never make you feel like the odd one out. In fact, they will stand and wait politely for that extra chair and call Triple A while you bounce around like a manic squirrel. But there's the inevitable moment at every gathering where it hits you – you are the only single one left.

So how do you deal with it? I have a few methods. Some of 'em nice, some of 'em not.

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Jul 1st 2009 By Amber Adrian

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Why I Quit Looking for Love Online

I don't even remember his name. I hardly remember his face. He was wholly unremarkable, and yet he stands out in my memory as the Date Who Made Me Ditch My Decade-Old Strategy for Meeting Men. There was no ski mask or chainsaw involved -- he even had most of his hair.

But he was boring. And I realized that I was on a date and all of the fun, nervous energy has been replaced by wishing you were back home watching episodes of "House." It then occurred to me that my online dating mojo may be tragically defunct.

Had I been at it too long? I felt like I'd learned everything there was to know -- or at least I'd learned a thing or two about looking for love online ... and why I won't be doing it anymore.

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